You know if life is all about winning, then we will all be very miserable. Cos there will always be so many so many people better than us in one way or another.. So truly the only competitor should be ourselves. I get a sense of satisfaction whenever I outdo myself, knowing that I've grown a little.. Slowly but steadily.

Talking about this, 'nothing is fair.' Yea I agree to a large extent. Say for talent time or some beauty contest or whatever competition that involves judging.. How fair can it get? There are only a handful of judges who determine the outcome to start with. Or even for examinations where there are so many markers with different standards.. How fair can it get? So my conclusion is to do your best in whatever you set your mind to do and at the end of the day, you know you have done well and deserve to give yourself a pat on your back (don't do it literally though wahaha). Oh oh oh but they don't deserve to win!!! That shouldn't be our concern. Just be happy for them. ;)